Created With Purpose

We all are facing something at this moment. Good or bad. This may look like a mom on a dying bed, a daughter being attacked by the enemy and the mother cant do anything about it. 

Maybe you lost your husband to the death, your mom and all the responsibility of the household rest on your shoulders. You maybe on the verge of loosing your house or must move out and you dont know where to go. 

You feel that you dont know how you will get through it. Feeling hopeless in a hopeless situation. People cannot help us as we wish they can. Some can but only to a certain extend.

Which bring me to the One who has the answers in all Truth. He is forever, eternal and wants to invite you to come to Him. Embrace His love for you. He created you because He loves you. He created all things to bring Him glory in everything. Created for God and therefore ask His perspective in any matter. Invite him into your heart today.

Prayer and Faith. 

@Created with Purpose

Who are you?

Who am I and why am I here? That is the question many of us have. Some go look for it in all the wrong places such as discos, clubs, friends that enjoys having a 'lekker tyd' and still don't know who they actually are.

Those that knows me since primary years will remember me as a very quiet girl. They called me shy and quiet. On the other hand I excelled very well on school through this quietness. Growing older and attending High School I was still regarded as the quiet and sweet one. It however have placed a expectation that I cannot do anything wrong and should not step out of line. 

Well away from home whilst staying on a Hostel during High School you some how want to experiment also because now you were out of sight. Even though you experiment with alcohol and clubbing you just somehow know that this is not for you. Still somehow you keep on going back. 

This is how patterns and cycles are formed and before you know it you are addicted without you realising it. Curiosity can lead you astray when you do not know who you are. 

Therefore it is so important to raise your children now already in the fear of the Lord and encouraging them to have a relationship with Jesus Christ from a very young age. 

I knew about Jesus, attended Sunday School, attended youth, but I was more afraid of God whenever I did something wrong and that was religion. 

God our Father is a loving God because He created us. He created us to live for Him. We are His creature and made in His image. He is the ultimate Creator and through Jesus Christ we can restore our relationship with our Creator, God.

Restored in your identity ultimately results into your purpose  being awakened. Over the years I have realised that when we move from the secret place and not making it a priority, you loose your own creativity and start to copy others. But that is not what God wants. 

He wants to meet you where you are in order to start to show you the reason He has you created you. The problem that you need to solve. 

You don't have to explore all the sinful things in the world before giving your 'Yes' to Jesus. He wants to do life with you Now. Not tomorrow maybe. 

Each one of us have a unique purpose as pre-destined by God Himself. And you can only discover it by sitting with God and prioritizing time in the secret place. Return to your first love to move out of the confusion.

The labels given to me and to you back then in our youth is not what God is saying about us. 

He made me to be bold, courageous and walking in authority of Jesus Christ.

Lets give Him our  Yes and see how He shows us mighty and great things He can do with and through you. 

I am not who the world says I am but who God had called me to be. 

1 Pet 2:9

 But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a consecrated nation, a [special] people for God’s own possession, so that you may proclaim the excellencies [the wonderful deeds and virtues and perfections] of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light. 

Lets go. 

CWR.

How it started

As I am walking through the Xairu Foundation, Lekker Restaurant, Retail Shop, Arts & Crafts, Events it brings so much memories back.

In my youth days this building was just Oom Tommie 's restaurant and the building next door was the Tourism building. Now the Tourism building is named The Ateljee. So many things have changed but the memories is still fresh. Next to the Tourism office was also a Library.

In the early days of the Suurbraak library we would visit it almost everyday. We enjoyed reading so much. I believe it have helped me alot in my shoolwork. 

Today I still love reading and writing down my thoughts. I remember I use to prepare so well for our prepared speeches on High School and I would tell myself I deserve a good mark. But usually I never got what I expected. 

Still I hold on to the dream of delivering well prepared speeches. One day I will come back and deliver my best speech. 

I encourage parents to motivate their children to read more. To fall in love with reading as it helps with studying and most importantly to dream. 

Books give you the oppertunity to dream and visualize. So don't neglect helping children to read and dream. 

I'm forever thankful for Sister Maggy who assisted me back than to join Chrysalis Academy, Tokai when she still worked at the Tourism office. She is such a lovely person. Full of grace and the love of God.

I pray that other young people come across their own Sis Maggy who forms part of the tapestry of our beautiful life stories set out by God our Father. 

Seeing the young people at the Xairu Foundation Youth participating in games and having so much fun brings so much joy to my heart as my daughter can now form part of this day amongst the children of Suurbraak. 

To show her where I grew up and how we enjoyed life here. She had so much fun and another memory is planted. This is long-lasting impact. 

Thank you sis Maggy. 

Thank you God.

Your daughter. 

Chrisandy

Against all Odds

Listen... The journey of prayer.

I remember 10yrs ago when I gave my heart to Jesus the love I grew into spending time in the word, reading the Bible. Waking up every day at 5h00 to pray consistently. The war prayers for others. How God just shows up when we show up constently. 

Resist the devil and he will flee. Draw closer to God and He will draw closer to you. Mag God enlighten my Spirit to stay longer in His presence every day.

Remain in Christ. Let His word remain in you. To will bear much fruit. 

Dear daughter

I remember so clearly the day when I was nudge by HOLY spirit to pray earnestly. I just obeyed and fiercely prayed there in the room of our flat. I afterwards realised I had to pray as there was an attacked on you being formed in my womb in the spirit. But God He is faithful. 

I started praying over you whilst in my womb and the day we discovered we are pregnant was the most joyful day of our lives.

🌞You are God's masterpiece. 

☀️You are His wonderful thought. 

🌹You are His delicate flower. 

You are my grace and therefore the name you carry today.

Young mother, wife, pray as

Holy Spirit urge you to pray always for your unborn child and children you are having already. Pray as you are planning to have children and cover your womb with the blood of Jesus. 

🙏The prayer of a righteous person avail much.

 

CWR

What is the problem you must solve?

I am once again still awake. It is 12h34, meaning it is Wednesday morning already. The 7th January 2026. I am having an unease on my stomach that I just can't explained. I have doom scrolled again and I can just kick myself. How is it that you know you suppose to do something but still don't. Or you must not do something and still you do. 

My prayer this year is to have a discerning eye and ear for the things of God only. Lord may I never get so caught up in the past relationships hurt. Lord may I be aligned with Your will for my life.

I always hear you have to solve a problem that only you can solve. I am expectant Lord to hear and see. I do not want to leave 2026 without knowing those problems. May the Holy Spirit be my helper. 

I know it is part of my book I am writing this year. Super excited for it to be launch this year in Jesus Name. 

You have all you need

We live in a world where we want things to happen now!! We watch and scroll through our phones until who knows when and watch other people's lifes. Wishing you can have what they have. Do what they do. But we can't have what they have or do what they do.

Life will really be boring if we would be all the same and also doing the same things. God is a God who is creative. He made us in His image and He bestowed His creativity within us. It's just a matter of time that you tap into that greatness hidden within you. 

You are enough. You are loved. You are beautiful. You are talented. You have all you need.

You will be surprise how people actually watch you and envy what you have whilst you want what others have. 

You will start to see the things they start to do by copying what you do, buying the same things you bought. This can be as simple as the same car, same couches or even clothes. It's ridiculous how some you thought are rooting for you actually are in competition with you. 

What make it worse is that over time it is revealing itself and now you understand the distance, the sudden quietness, just viewing and watching from a distance. That's scary. 

We can only love, pray and wish them well and in the meantime be all God wants you to be because you are enough. 

You are perfect as you are. Be the main character in your own story but never forget to make Jesus Christ your priority nr 1 in your life. Make Him your best friend.. After all He knows you best. 

Lots of Love 

M&S Solutions 

Unlock Your Voice Vol. III-Pre-order waitlist by Chrisandy Ruiters

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This book is a Faith-driven collaboration of visionary leaders across South-Africa-each chapter carrying real stories of faith, breakthrough and purpose.

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Surrender

In the early morning hours of me being 40 yrs and 5 days I'm laying in bed wide awake. I went to bed early and now I'm just scrolling on my phone. I do realize I'm wasting time. Time I could have used talking to God. I miss spending intense time with my Father. I will and shall restore our precious moments together. 

I know it's where strength can be regained, vision comes clear and new ideas begin. I am on a new level in my life of being 40 and I'm expecting God to show up and reveal things for my life.

I'm excited for the book about to be  launched "Unlock your Voice Vol III. This is my first ever book to be part of. God I'm walking this journey fully surrendered to You. May you Holy Spirit be my guide. I am drawing from my Faith Bag as I go on this new journey.

 I am forever thankful for the people God has placed on my path. I will grow spiritually and I will succeed in my dream of becoming a entrepreneur, life coach and so much more God has in store for. Teach me Lord to surrender and fully trust You in all I do.

Lets go God!!

Your daughter 

Chrisandy 

The beauty of motherhood

Have you recently looked at your children and wonder how did you make it thus far in motherhood?

Being a mother of two children have showed me more about myself then anybody else. I have learned that its ok not to be supermom , that its ok not to know it all. 

We tend to think mothers must have it all together and know everything. In fact it is not like that at all. We look at other moms and wonder how they get it right to be so hands on with everything they do. From the outside she look all powerful, all glamorous and in control. 

What we dont know is that she is fighting battles no  one knows about. Being a mom for a teenager and a toddler has its blessings more than the troubles.Yes we do have days where we feel like strangling each other. Sometimes you just want to break down and cry and  never get up again. Other days you just cant stop laughing and cuddling and chilling. 

Its the process we need to embrace. Each motherhood journey is diffrent I know eventhough there are many similarities. Its the things I learn about myself that make being a mother so beautiful.

Sometimes you dont recognise the person that is doing or saying things you thought you would never do or say. It is in this process that you become more aware of the flaws and imperfections within you. Its the oppertunities you start to see to grow in particular areas where you fall short.

If it were not for them I know I would have never saw it or even becoming aware of them.

Do you also treasure your children?.

Both my journeys with my two children were different. My son started living with me when he turnef10 years old and my daughter ever since she got born. There is a 13 year gap between them and it takes courage to navigate between the two.

We dont always get it right but as long as I am trying my best I know I am on the right path. Sometimes I literally dont know what to do,,and than I just hand over to God..Oh yes my Father who made it all possible in my life.

Because of Him I am the mother I am to my beautiful children.

In this life we cant maneuvere without God.We need Him so much and He need us to plant heaven on earth. To train our children in His ways. 

The beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU WILL HAVE.!!

Are you seeing a bright future for your kids or are you badmouthing them. Do watch what you speak over their lives. All power is the tongue. Whether it is life or death . What you say will come into manifestation. 

Start speaking good things over you children even if you dont see it yet. 

We are only stewards over our chiìldren and we should use the time with them with utmost intentionality.

I am becoming a mother who they will enjoy hanging out with when they feel like it.The one they can share all their dreams, desires with. I love them and would love them to know they matter . Regardless of what they did or say, they are mine to look after and at the same time I am taking care of God's children. 

Children obey your parents and parents love your children. Be kind to them ..one day you will miss them deeply when they are no longer there.

C.W.R

Bathroom ministry

The bathroom is the place where we can quiet down from all the noise in the other rooms of the house.

It is so because I know my husband enjoy reading articles whenever he visits the bathroom. Why this is the case only the bathroom walls will know.

Coming back to bathroom ministry concept is because here is where I had my very first real encounter with my Heavenly Father. He has made me to see me as He sees me. 

He made me see how He loved me from the beginning until here were I felt I'm not worthy of His love. He is Faithful in ministering to me as this is where I have really started to see me as He my God sees me. 

With all the faults, scars and heartbreaks God came and wrapped me in His Fatherly love. I started to see how He have walked with me all the days of my life where I was suppose to  be taken out of this life by death. 

Since the beginning of my life as a baby yet I was in and out of hospitals. There  already the devil tried to take me out.

 Today I know why as He is teaching me new things through His word and making me understand of what it is He has placed inside of me. 

Oooh... GREATER IS HE that is inside of me than he that is outside of me. 

It is to be attentive to the voice of the Holy Spirit whilst in the bathroom. The bathroom is the place where we want to get rid of all th days filth from our bodies and to just ralax in a bath or under the shower. 

It is here where we can be open to the voice of the Holy Spirit as we are cleaning ourselves outside but now we can use it to cleanse even ourselves from the inside out. These can be the moments of true worship as you prepare yourself for the new day ahead. 

God's Love in His fullest glory can meet us in the bathroom also. 

Listen to His voice next time when you preparing yourself. 

Begin again

Do you feel like your life is over? That you have nothing to live for anymore? That everything you tried led to nothing?

There are those times in our lives. When we reach that breaking point and have nowhere to turn to. Feeling lost in a world that looks as if people don't care. People so consumed in their own little world of performing, aspiring and striving.

 Are the things we want so badly worth fighting for even though it hurt us so much? When do we know that enough is enough.

Living in a era where everyone wants to fit in somewhere it can be difficult to make a decision out of selfishness. Selfish in a way that it will be beneficial to you as an individual.

Yes, it is good to be nice and caring to everyone but when it cost your integrity , your values and your life dreams than you are allowed to become selfish.

It will however not be that easy to start afresh because you will have to move from the known to the unknown.

You will have to become the person you never were before. The person you have no clue about. To become the one you desire to be, starts with reflection, insight and visualisation.

Where are you now? Where do you want to be? Are you willing to go there? How can you get there?

You must be willing to allow the One who created you to have the first and most important meeting with yourself. When He let you see who you are, who you were meant to be , how to get there, you will become hungry to know more.

One cannot talk about your Creator if you never experience Him. It is only when you have that encounter when things shift in the spiritual realm. Your sight are been touch, your hearing are more clear and you walk from being lost to being found.

People you thought are your friends wont be there anymore, things you use to enjoy are not fun anymore. Your taste buds  will totally change and you will become the person you are born for.

 Yes , everything will come with a price, a price of sacrifice. Nothing is worth fighting for if you are not willing to sacrifice. You need to move away from anything that meant to tear you down to be put back together again. You may be broken but you are not destroyed.

It doesn't matter where you find yourself today or the situation that you are in . What matters is that you are realizing that you need to make a change. To see the change we need be the change.

This is so true. This comes with a process. Its not going to be a magic change over night. Oh no my friend, its going to take commitment, dedication and diligence. Focused on what you want to set in a change motion.

The results of your hard effort will not be in vain. Slowly it will develop into the beautiful end product  you envisioned. Let nothing stop you to make a fresh start in your life.

You are born for greatness and you deserve to be happy and at peace with yourself and those around you.

No one can ever say they have arrived because all of us are still on a journey. What makes it worth while on your road of starting again is that you are growing. That you are not where you use to be.

I am also with you on the journey , in the process of becoming. I dont want to miss out on what I can be, what I am destined to be.

I am may have started off to soon or wrong , which forced me to work harder. That is what pushed me to make up for the lost times. The wrong way or too soon manner can work for your good.

Nothing that we go through in our lives are random. There are always something coupled to it. You had to go through what you went through. It was part of your journey.

You gain knowledge, insight and the experience either build you or break you.

Choose to be build up !Choose to grow ! Choose to change !Choose to make a fresh start !

CWR

Love that saves

It all started 0n 13 August 2016 at a church women's conference in Potchefstroom. The moment I realised I need God more than anything else. I now know it was the Holy Spirit that drew me!

I had come to the realisation that I need my Father God so much because I had tried to live a life without Him and all it brought was heartache and pain that I could not share with God.

This was because I were too ashamed of being in His presence or calling on His name as my sins were too great. I did not feel worthy of being called by Him. 

There was a emptiness in me that no one could fill at that particular time. My then boyfriend, now my husband could not understand by then what have happened to me after giving my life to Jesus Christ. 

The  Love of Jesus Christ  have saved me. He has showed me grace and and mercy. He have heard my prayers. When Jesus touch you , your life can never stay the same. My heart is so full because His resurrection power is so real and tangible.In His presence there is deliverance, freedom and power and this where I am most fulfilled. 

He saved me by grace and He is still doing it today. I cannot fathom the presence of God. The glory of God. He is King and sits on His throne. Whenever I lift up my hands in worship and praising His name He bless me with His majestic power and presence. 

He touches my mouth and heart and all I can do is worship, worship, worship my King. Call on His name Jesus!! Holy and holy is His name.

He wants you and me to praise Him day, night and through out our entire life. You too can have access to this Love and He is able to save still today. Receive the grace, love and mercy today. 

His love saved me!!

Thank you Father God. Thank you Jesus Christ. Thank you Holy Spirit. 

Your royal daughter

Chrisandy

Nothing without God

 Nothing without God

This is a beginning of a new month, and I have so much to be thankful for that I cannot let this day go by and not write about the grace of God and how I am nothing without Him. My whole existence revolves around Him. Many times, we think we can hide ourselves from God, making excuses that this is not the time yet to be bold for Him. In this day and age, we cannot hide anymore. It is either you are for Him or against Him. You either serve Him wholeheartedly or not at all but do not claim to be His child but you never accepted Him as Lord and Saviour of your life. It is only those who accepted Him that can enjoy His benefits forever more. It's not always easy to stand boldly to declare Jesus as your King in environments where Christ is not the norm, so it will need you and me to take stand boldly and declare that He is alive, and He will accomplish what He promise in His word (Bible). I am thankful for Gods loving hand that still keep me even when I do not deserve it at times. He has always been a good Father to me, and I love Him always. I am truly nothing without Him. Titles, positions can never give me identity because I have found my identity in Christ alone. I am loved, restored, favored, anointed, not mediocre, I will see increase, elevation and abundance in Jesus' name. Amen

Make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior today.

Blessings

Chrisandy

Designer's Original

This is the 2nd last month of the year. I am still awake early morning hours. Wondering about life especially my purpose, my specific set out plan by God. The conversation I had with my husband earlier the evening sparked this fire in me to see, hear, feel and experience life more in it's fullest version. The way I as God's original design can be a difference by leaving my mark before my days are over on earth.

This is literally keeping me awake to hear from God. What is it that He wants me to hear today in this early hours of the morning. Its like am starting to see and rediscover myself. I reflect back on my journey God has brought me from and where I am currently in my life. How He has planned everything and how God knows what lies ahead.

We can easily get caught up watching other people's journeys that we so get lost in our own minds. Wondering about other people's business that we miss what God wants to whisper in our ears. So that we can clearly hear His vision and allow Him to finish what He started in our lives.

May we embark into a new season focusing on God who knows our beginning from the end. We are His designer's original. There is only one of you!! Make it a memorable image. Seize every oppertunity coming your way!!

Beyond Grace. 

Chrisandy 

With God everything is possible

I just have to share a testimony of what recently happened to me at the Cape Town Airport. So I was on time for my flight on my arrival at the airport.. That was around 9 o'clock am and my flight was schedule to take off 10h05 am. The boarding gates to open 09h35 an closed 09h50. 09h45 am I was still going through security.

 I some how totally forgot to go first through security before going to the restaurants for breakfast. Yoh I was literally late for the plane and the gates was suppose to be closed. I had ran in the wrong direction for my boarding gate. But God was so faithful to His promise that it might humanely looked impossible but with God all things are possible. We need to be faithful in truth  and you will see how God move the universe on your behalf.

I literally had to run as I eventually found my boarding gate and they were waiting only for me. I almost cried as I was running in faith eventhough the possibility of the boarding gate might be closed. Something just kept me going and  I know now that God was the force behind everything. He really is a promise keeper. 

This was a weekend I was so looking forward to, to see my family in Pretoria and so the enemy wanted to rob me almost of a blessed weekend but God's righteous hand was on the plans for the day.

I have learned from this episode that you should never be to prideful to ask for help along your journey. That you need to ask for help when you are unsure. To manage your time and make sure you are familiar with all the expectations of a certain journey, task or venture beforehand. Sometimes life do not always happen according to our desires and plans but that is also OK.. 

We need to be ready for  uncomfortabilty sometimes and this will be the stepping stone in growing in your faith in God. Keep your eyes focus on Jesus because that is what I did as I was running through that airport on Thursday, 8 August 2024. 

My God is faithful. 

Mat 19:26

Chrisandy 

Life is good

The last five months have been a rollercoaster. Some days I'm  on a roll and other days just on a go slow. So much changes have occured in my life. Things I have been prayed for and still do. Days have been challenging I will not lie and still in the midst of all changes I keep on trying again and again because I have been given breathe everyday to make it worth while. So here I am reflecting back on my past months accomplishment, challenges and adventures and think to myself how life is just amazing. No matter how I feel at this moment, confused, anticipation, excitement and so much joy and peace that just can't be explain. So unsure of the future but because I know who holds the future everything just becomez so fulfilling and peaceful. As a human being I do have fears and uncertainties but when I just think of where God has brought me from I cannot not otherwise but to be grateful for all I have received and all I am blessed with. I do not know all the answers and I don't know how things will unfuld in the next 5 months. But I know God is faithful and that is enough for me. With that I will lay down my head tonight and know Holy Spirit will lead.

God bless.

Chrisandy 

Not difficult not easy

It's easy to make as if things are fine. Whereas you are dying inside. It's like you can't breathe at times. You feel like you are suffocating and wish to just break down and cry. These days are so difficult to handle still you make as if it is easy. Somehow you still get up in the morning with the encouraged Word of God as the source that keeps you going. But you know it is difficult. You tell God all your heartaches and challenges and some how you get new strenght but some days it's is more difficult than easy. You can't sleep, you want to cry but there is no tears that come. You so long for your loved one that are thousand miles away. You never thought this will be so difficult being apart as you never experienced it so long apart. God please give me the strenght to hold on to my faith. You are all I have and all I will ever need. I will get the help coz I realised I will drown if not getting it soon. Lord help me! 

Loved

Not defeated!!!

I have no idea of how I will be able to keep standing in the difficult circumstances, how I will go to bed without a tear leaving my eyes during my conversations with my Father. Oh how I know He is hearing me and know He is seeing my heart's desires. How I wonder at night how to tackle the next day. Should I do this or should I do that in order to make it happen myself. In the midst of the tossing and turning God still hears me, sees me and knows what's best for me. Knowing He is with me every step of the a way. So as I am waiting on His word, His guidance I pray to be patient and feel, see and experience His glory in everything. So Lord let me just see your Glory in everything. I don't have all the answers but I know You do. So I want to remain calm, at peace and pray whilst I wait on you. You know what's best and thank you for never leaving my side. I am not defeated!!! 

Your daughter.